The power button always works via IR, whether bluetooth paired or not. Bluetooth pairing is mostly non-destructive.
Hahaha, I wasn't saying it for that reason, I was saying it in case I canceled the IR mode Right, that's the part I needed to know, forgive my ignorance. Now it has become clear to me. Finally, to pair it, I have seen sites where they indicate that you have to press play(4) and vol-(11) and others next track(6) and vol-(11). Which one is really correct?
Back to the original question in #1: “Has anyone found a third-party unit that is more substantial?” Anyone? The Satechi R2 looked like a nice potential candidate, but apparently only works with iOs. And probably lacks IR. Sofabaton U2 looks a bit clunky, but does combine IR/BT. However the Library function is rubbish and makes it impossible to see if the A6 is supported. Maybe @mirror can help us out?